When people view sex, sex appeal, or just being sexy most of the time its R or sometimes even X rated thoughts. This is not always the case, I often get complimented more by the opposite sex when I am fully clothed and dressed up for work than I would walking around in a bikini. Does that say more about me or the opposite sex, well both? Why because men are visual. Bottom line they like put together women in my experience, and a woman who knows what she likes and wants to wear and is confident doing so... well she's getting attention! And for us, everyone enjoys being complimented and feeling confident in themselves. And as women we should, all women are beautiful and there is so much to offer with everyone's uniqueness.
That being said, I think women downplay themselves in a work setting or going out setting for fear of judgement or heaven forbid Slut shaming. But stop worrying about others, easier said than done I know. But trust me that person's opinion will mean nothing to you by tomorrow! There are easy things to add to an outfit to show off who you are without going overboard if you are reserved, personally I enjoy looking and feeling sexy I embrace it, it is who I am. Why? It gives me confidence and nothing is better than receiving compliments being fully clothed while online your competing with half naked instagram models. (not shaming, they're hot we all know it!) For me personally I like to follow a few easy things that instantly make me feel sexy.
The skin rule, when picking an outfit you get to choose which area of skin to highlight. Tits,Tummy, or Thighs. You don't get all 3, when you pick more than one of these to highlight then you start to go toward the birthday suit train, and men like to leave a little to the imagination. I am on the petite side so I add heels to everything I wear, whether it be a small wedge or 6 inch Louboutin it can change an outfit and give you a natural confidence boost. Men love heels, they just do it's visually appealing to the eye. Plus if you can rock 6 inch stilettos all day and night, you know your a B.A.B. ( boss ass bitch)
